How to Handle Revenge Trading – The Only Guide You’ll Ever Need

Jasper Osita - Market Analyst

2025-07-04 13:43:44

Goal of This Lesson

To help you understand the science behind revenge trading, recognize it when it’s happening, and apply a single powerful ritual to stop it in its tracks and protect your trading edge—day after day.

What Is Revenge Trading (And Why It Happens)

 

Revenge trading is what happens when you take a loss—and your brain refuses to let go. You try to “win it back” by overtrading, increasing size, or abandoning your system.

It’s not a strategy.

It’s emotional hijacking.

The Science Behind It

  • Dopamine Withdrawal: Losses cause a drop in dopamine (your reward chemical), triggering pain—and the brain craves immediate relief.
  • Amygdala Hijack: You enter fight/flight mode. Logic shuts down. Emotion takes over.
  • Cognitive Tunnel Vision: You ignore rules, skip confirmations, and react impulsively. It feels urgent—like you must trade now.

How to Spot Revenge Trading in the Moment

Look for these behavioral cues:

BehaviorMeaning
Instant re-entryTrading within minutes after a loss
Bigger position sizeSuddenly risking more than your plan
Emotional justification“I just need to get it back” thinking
Impulse setupsTaking low-probability trades with no structure
Ignoring rulesBypassing your checklist or trade plan
Spamming tradesMore trades in an hour than your normal average

THE RITUAL: The 3-Minute Reset Rule

Whenever you feel the urge to revenge trade, follow this step-by-step ritual:

Step 1: Name the Emotion (15 sec)

Say out loud:

“I feel frustrated. I’m emotionally triggered right now.”

This activates your prefrontal cortex and breaks the emotional loop.

Step 2: Stand Up + Step Away (30 sec)

Physically walk away from your trading screen.

No charts. No buttons. Just distance.

This disengages you from the "fight response."

Step 3: Do the “4×4 Box Breath” (90 sec)

Inhale 4 sec Hold 4 sec Exhale 4 sec Hold 4 sec Repeat this 4 times. Total = 1.5 minutes.

This activates your parasympathetic nervous system—shifting you from reactive to rational.

Step 4: Ask 1 Question Before Re-Entry

Write this in your journal or say it aloud:

“Would I take this trade if I were up +2R today?”

If the answer is no, walk away again.

If the answer is yes, only enter if it matches your full plan.

The timing entirely depends on you. You can go for a longer period.

The Daily Rule That Builds Discipline

“If I lose 2 trades back-to-back, I stop for the day—no exceptions.”

This rule rewires your brain. It teaches that discipline equals control, not more trades.

Your Brain Is Wired for Emotion—But You Train It With Ritual

Revenge trading is natural. Ritual is the cure.

When your brain wants revenge, you give it reflection.

Let this be your pattern-breaker.

One-Liner Rule to Repeat Daily

“If I feel emotional, I don’t trade—I reset.”

Check Out My Contents:

Strategies That You Can Use

How To Trade & Scalp Indices at the Open Using Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

How to Trade Breakouts Effectively in Day Trading with Smart Money Concepts

Complete Step-by-Step Guide to Day Trading Gold (XAU/USD) with Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

The Power of Multi-Timeframe Analysis in Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

Forex Trading Strategy for Beginners

Mastering Candlestick Pattern Analysis with the SMC Strategy for Day Trading

Mastering Risk Management: Stop Loss, Take Profit, and Position Sizing

RSI Divergence Trading Strategy for Gold: How to Identify and Trade Trend Reversals

Stochastics Trading Secrets: How to Time Entries in Trending Markets using Stochastics

Gold Trading Stochastics Strategy: How to Trade Gold with 2R–3R Targets

RSI Hidden Divergence Explained: How to Spot Trend Continuations Like a Pro

How To Trade News

Why Smart Money Concepts Work in News-Driven Markets - CPI, NFP, and More

How to Trade NFP Using Smart Money Concepts (SMC)-A Proven Strategy for Forex Traders

How to Trade CPI Like Smart Money - A Step-by-Step Guide Using SMC

Learn How to Trade US Indices

How to Start Trading Indices and Get into the Stock Market with Low Capital (2025 Guide)

Best Indices to Trade for Day Traders | NASDAQ, S&P 500, DAX + Best Times to Trade Them

How To Trade & Scalp Indices at the Open Using Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

NAS100 - How to Trade the Nasdaq Like a Pro (Smart Money Edition)

How to Trade CPI Like Smart Money - A Step-by-Step Guide Using SMC

Why Smart Money Concepts Work in News-Driven Markets - CPI, NFP, and More

How to Start Trading Gold

How to Swing Trade Gold (XAU/USD) Using Smart Money Concepts: A Simple Guide for Traders

Complete Step-by-Step Guide to Day Trading Gold (XAU/USD) with Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

The Ultimate Guide to Backtesting and Trading Gold (XAU/USD) Using Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

Why Gold Remains the Ultimate Security in a Shifting World

How to Exit & Take Profits in Trading Gold Like a Pro: Using RSI, Range Breakdowns, and MAs as Your Confluence

How to Trade Japanese Candlesticks

Mastering the Top Japanese Candlesticks: The Top 5 Candlesticks To Trade + Top SMC Candlestick Pattern

How to Trade Candlestick Patterns with High Probability: A Complete Guide for Beginners

The Top Japanese Candlestick Guide: What is an Engulfing Pattern and How to Trade It?

Piercing Pattern Candlestick Explained: How to Trade It - Step-By-Step Guide

Morning & Evening Star Candlestick Patterns – How to Trade Market Reversals with Confidence

How to Start Day Trading

5 Steps to Start Day Trading: A Strategic Guide for Beginners

8 Steps How to Start Forex Day Trading in 2025: A Beginner’s Step-by-Step Guide

3 Steps to Build a Trading Routine for Consistency and Discipline - Day Trading Edition

The Ultimate Guide to Understanding Market Trends and Price Action

Learn how to navigate yourself in times of turmoil

How to Identify Risk-On and Risk-Off Market Sentiment: A Complete Trader’s Guide

How to Trade Risk-On and Risk-Off Sentiment - With Technical Confirmation

The Ultimate Guide to Understanding Market Trends and Price Action

Want to learn how to trade like the Smart Money?

Why Smart Money Concepts Work: The Truth Behind Liquidity and Price Action

Mastering the Market with Smart Money Concepts: 5 Strategic Approaches

Mastering Candlestick Pattern Analysis with the SMC Strategy for Day Trading

Understanding Liquidity Sweep: How Smart Money Trades Liquidity Zones in Forex, Gold, US Indices

The SMC Playbook Series Part 1: What Moves the Markets? Key Drivers Behind Forex, Gold & Stock Indices

The SMC Playbook Series Part 2: How to Spot Liquidity Pools in Trading-Internal vs External Liquidity Explained

The SMC Playbook Series Part 3: Market Momentum Explained: Displacement, Manipulation & Imbalances in SMC

The SMC Playbook Series Part 4: How to Confirm Trend Reversal & Direction using SMC

The SMC Playbook Series Part 5: The Power of Multi-Timeframe Analysis in Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

Fair Value Gaps Explained: How Smart Money Leaves Footprints in the Market

The Best Time to Use Smart Money Concepts (SMC): Why Timing Is Everything in Trading SMC

How to Trade the London Session Using Smart Money Concepts (SMC)

Trading Psychology and Continuous Improvement Contents

The Mental Game of Execution - Debunking the Common Trading Psychology

5 Steps to Backtest a Trading Strategy with AI: A Step-by-Step Guide

Managing Trading Losses: Why You Can Be Wrong and Still Win Big in Trading

The Hidden Threat in Trading: How Performance Anxiety Sabotages Your Edge

Why You Fail in Trading: You Don’t Have Enough Capital to Survive

Why 90% of Retail Traders Fail Even with Profitable Trading Strategies

The Top 10 Best Trading Books That Changed My Mindset, Strategy & Performance

Discovering Your Trader Profile: What Kind of Trader Are You?

Follow me for more daily market insights!

Jasper Osita - LinkedIn - FXStreet - YouTube

This content may have been written by a third party. ACY makes no representation or warranty and assumes no liability as to the accuracy or completeness of the information provided, nor any loss arising from any investment based on a recommendation, forecast or other information supplies by any third-party. This content is information only, and does not constitute financial, investment or other advice on which you can rely.

Yazar

Jasper has been in the markets since 2019 trading currencies, indices and commodities like Gold. His approach in the market is heavily accompanied by technical analysis and of course, supported by fundamentals. He has a background in trading proprietary firms and has been teaching students how to navigate themselves in the markets from basic to advance concepts.

Fiyatlar sadece gösterge niteliğindedir